One of the greatest things that happened during my year of unemployment is the uninterrupted and leisurely time I get to spend with family and friends and the shared processing of life events that came with it. The subject that always comes up – dating life! I have restrained my dating life. In the past year, I get to understand how I have wired myself in terms of heart matters. Although I try to charge on it, as I would in surf, travel, work and every other aspect of my life, dating is the aspect that I flake out on. In my attempt not to go down the path of having my life revolve around another person, I have cultivated this mindset that I will find the love of my life as long as it is hassle-free and I will only keep the love of my life as long as sacrifice isn’t required. I have overdone it. I felt that I have caught the best fish in the sea and I let them go without a fight. A good fight I would give for a wave. In surfing, I take waves on a critical, claim “MINE!...
"The more clearly we can focus our attention on the wonders and realities of the universe about us, the less we shall have for destruction." - Alain de Botton